Alternative Spirituality

» pink101 - Not Conclusive

In response to What's Their Real Problem? posted by RichardSpeaks:
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Okay, I see what you're saying. A tendency to be less masculine and more feminine in appearance can be carried over to the idea that some behaviors are also bred into our genetic codes. And, in women, a tendency to be more masculine. Right, I can buy that.
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The ideas you have presented speak for a certain group of people; but, it doesn't explain the larger portion of homosexuals either male or female. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to appreciate how some women turn lesbian when sex is all about obtaining pleasure, do you? They had sex with men who had no interest in them other than being something on which they "got off" on to be blunt. If I were a woman, I wouldn't want to have some stinking gorp **** over me like that. So, I guess I can support lesbians.
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When it comes to being an exclusively gay male, I think it's too bad for them that they have missed the point of a sexual relationship between a caring man and a loving woman. It isn't about sexuality so much as it is about intimacy with another human being that has a completely different perspective on reality. A spirit is created when two people interact and the spirit of the male, female dyad is especially rewarding.
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There's more to sex than sexual pleasure. So much more so that the physical pleasure turns almost nonexistent.
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-- posted by pink101